Gymboree clothes are so cute and sweet, but I just can't justify buying whole wardrobes for the kids at those prices, especially when you have the type of kids who *love* wiping their mouths on their sleeves! UGH! I am the queen of stain removal!
Anyway, I let the grandparents do the Gymboree purchases (with suggestions, of course, and specific size info). You'd also be surprised at what you can find in resale shops. I have two that I go to- one in an average part of town, and another in a nicer area. There are specific sellers that bring in TONS of Gymboree, so if you find the same seller number on the tags of clothes you like, ask the ladies behind the counter to call you when that seller brings in a bunch of clothes. You never know- you might get a call! It never hurts to ask.
As a side note, one thing that cracks me up at the resale shops: monogrammed clothing. Really, what do they think the chances are that another kid will have the EXACT same initials? LOL! Good for them trying to resell/recycle stuff, but good luck with that!
And yes, only upscale lines seem to have REALLY cute stuff for boys. I find decent stuff at Penney's and Dillards.
Good luck!
J.