NO. You and your kids are not abnormal.
Tell your Husband.
I am like you.
My kids are like your kids.
But I can... get them to eat some fruit in the morning or a cup or yogurt.
Before school.
They don't have lunch... until mid-morning for my son in Kinder, and my daughter lunch is at noon for her. SO... getting something in their tummy... BEFORE going to school, is important. For their well being and ability to function in school.
Otherwise, no food in the tummy, gets a kid hypoglycemic...and then they can't concentrate in school or get tired and fussy or dizzy.
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I do NOT, expect my kids, to eat a ton in the morning. They are not like that. But at least, some fruit or yogurt, is sufficient. Before school.
On weekends, we are much more casual about it all.
We all often eat, late in the morning.
Or yes, eat left overs for breakfast!
That is not, abnormal.