J.O.
I always give my son veggies first then he knows the good stuff is coming! We had about a week of tantrums but DON'T GIVE IN!
For the oatmeal I mix it up then I put a little bit of whatever fruit I am going to feed to him and mix it together then I put the oatmeal on the spoon first then scoop it in the fruit! LOVES IT
Hope this helps!