T.O.
L.,
My son was diagnosed with fine motor development delay and hypotonia a few times since age 1. He eventually was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome, and those are characteristics of Asperger--which is not at all to say your daughter has Asperger or anything like that. Just saying I am familiar with both. Basically he just has very weak upper body development from the hypotonia. His fine motor skill development delay mostly caused problems with him using buttons, zippers, eating utensils, etc. at the 'proper' age. He's had occupational therapy on and off for about 4 years. We did a lot of work at home too to help build his muscles--like playing 'wheelbarrow' with him so he could practice building muscles in his arms and putting pieces of dried macaroni into a hole cut in a plastic lid so he could work on the fine motor stuff. There's a lot the physical therapist can show you that will help you help her from home. First and foremost, try not to freak out or worry too much. I did, and it certainly was no benefit to anyone. And I'm thrilled to say that at 6 1/2 years old my son can button/zip his own clothes just fine, he can write normally, and he has fallen in love with-- and is doing very well in-- baseball. Throwing, hitting, etc. His hard work is paying off. Best of luck to you and your daughter.