K.D.
I did it with both of my kids. I was induced with the first and still gave birth naturally (because I had an AWESOME OB who was totally on board with my desire to not have drugs, so my induction was far from standard and was done in a way that tried to mimic natural labor). It was a great experience and I loved being in control of my body. With my second, it was an even better experience because it was natural labor.
If you are considering this, there are a few things you need to keep in mind to make it a positive experience.
- Practice, practice, practice. This makes all the difference. You have to be able to use the techniques in a stressful situation and that's not gonna happen if you haven't practiced them well.
- Consider asking a mother or sister -- someone you know is calm in stressful situations-- to also be your coach. My husband was there, I practiced with him a few times, but my mom was the best coach ever. She knew what natural birth was like and knew that when it got a bit hard (I was tired) that I was also pretty close to the end (I was). Whoever you choose to be your coach, make sure you practice with them often. I was practicing 4 times a week with my mom at the end of my pregnancy.
- Make sure that the people around you are on board with your choice to do it naturally and won't be pushing for you to take drugs. In some cases those drugs may be necessary, but if your doctor/midwife is on board with the natural birth then if they say you need them, you probably do.
- Write up a birth plan for the hospital (if you are giving birth there). But keep it short (less than one page). If it is longer they won't read it, and if they don't read it they won't follow it. Bullet points are highly recommended.
- Don't let people tell you how "awful" child birth is. Women have done this for thousands of years and still chosen to have more kids. It's not awful. It's lots of work, you will have tired/sore muscles. But it's nothing worse than a really intense workout.
My birth experiences were great experiences that I cherish. I loved being in control of my body and being able to feel all the things my body knew it wanted to do. If you have any specific questions, feel free to message me.