We probably have about $200 left - which generally goes into savings, or a dinner out.
once our car is paid off that will be a HUGE load off! that might amount to another $300 to save. We *hope* the next care we get will be bought outright with savings so we wont be wasting money on interest.
The only time we have money to spend is at tax time, that is when we get all our big "extras" taken care off, after we put a large chunk of our return towards bills. This year we hope we can pay off our car! I stay at home, but it really wouldn't help if I worked, because daycare for 2 toddlers around my area costs more than I would make, and it would require us to buy ANOTHER car, and feed it gas and the commute to the nearest town with any employment available is 1.5 hours (one way), so working opposite hours of my husband would be almost impossible...
Our family is eligible for food stamps, and I am torn between doing what we do now and applying for them, because having a little extra "breathing room" would be SO nice, but I have a hard time justifying it since we *can* scrape by on our own...
Our biggest savers; we cloth diaper, we don't use very many paper/disposable products, and we try to be good with our electrical bill and when we do buy clothes and other needs we go to second hand stores or we swap with freind and family. Having one car saves a lot too. We eat all our meals made from home except for about 1 a month as a treat. We save money on food by preparing it at home, and eating smaller portions. We try not to skimp on healthy foods though, even though they cost more- because if you are malnourished, or just not eating well, eventually you'll pay for it in doctor's bills!
But right now, I think everyone is tight, you just have to do what you can to get by! What matters is that you are healthy, safe, and happy!
-M.
Edit: after reading your costs... the areas to try and save would be Electric, Insurance, and possibly food (I don't know what kinds of foods you buy, your local cost of living or the ages of your kids... but I think that you might be able to save $ there, especially if you can cook double portions ahead of time and freeze half) Also, buy non perishables that you use in bulk, if possible. The upfront cost is more, but if you buy something like dried pasta, you can get TONS for only a few dollars at places like sam's club... and save yourself a lot of money in the long run.
For electric you probably know the best savers... unplug appliances that are not in use (don't leave toasters, hairdryers, coffee pots etc plugged in... turn down the heat in the winter (if you have central heating) a few degrees and use a space heater instead) turn off lights in rooms you don't use ETC.
I would *guess* you could get cheaper health insurance, if you all are healthy- no major illnesses. Depends on what your's covers of course, and what you need.
To save in the long run, OVERPAY on bills that have interest ever month, so instead of paying $490 on your car payments, try to pay $500... slowly your car payment amount will decrease, but keep over paying... in the end you will save a lot on interest, and when you can, try to pay your cars off completely.
we don't buy clothes monthly, maybe once a year we treat ourselves with a new outfit and shoes. If you have to buy clothes, go to consignment stores, thrift stores or ebay. So much stuff is in great or new condition for WAY less than retail, and you can buy good quality clothes, that no one will ever know are secondhand. I often get complemented on my wardrobe, but those designer jeans... $2.
I also forgot to mention that I make things myself. If I see a product that I HAVE TO HAVE but it is way to expensive, I price materials and make it in my free time. I sew clothes, bags etc, and make hair bows for my girls. I have some really awesome, nice looking and durable things that I made myself, and often you can find instructions to do so online for FREE!