I am in Utah, but I think www.pinchingyourpennies.com applies to Idaho, too. You can check their site for the best weekly deals at various stores. I'm taking a break from aggressive couponing because of my new baby, but it was a workshop from one of the experts at PYP that got me started and their Web site and strategies that got me hooked. Seriously, toothpaste for 25 cents. . . cereal for 50 cents. . . there are deals out there if you pay attention. For the first month or so you have to treat it like a hobby and give it an hour or two a week to get your coupons set up and organized. Then it becomes easier and automatic and you're just checking the ads or the info at PYP.
I use a binder with plastic sheet protectors designed for baseball cards. This allows me to see all my coupons at once. I only clip the ones for products I'm really likely to buy. I keep any others that i MIGHT use in the binder pockets or in a big sheet protector, unclipped (clipping takes time). I use dividers to seperate my various categories (household cleaning, soaps and lotion, dental, pets, baby, frozen, canned/boxed foods, misc.) and then I can flip around through my binder while I'm at a store. Whichever of my kids is sitting in the cart's seat knows it's his job to hold the coupon binder and hold the coupons I pull out to use. I do lke that my kids get involved and have a job, and I LOVE to hear them say thinsg like "No, that's not on sale," and "Do we have a coupon for this? No? Well, maybe next week."
The only time I ever go more than once a week or to more than one store is when there is a truly hot deal. Then I might do some regular shopping for lots of stuff at one place and go for a crack of dawn or late-night trip alone to get a deal on, say, spaghetti sauce. This is only worth it if it's a great deal and I'm going to buy a truckload of whatever is on sale. Otherwise, it's just too much for me to do with my three little kids. But getting deals is fun and makes shopping seem like a game and lets us try new things and also lets us have a big wall of stored food in the basement so I never feel like I HAVE to go to the store at all, except for fresh foods. I think that's the idea of couponing. If you get good at it (and you will, with practice) you will have a nice stockpile and won't go shopping at all EXCEPT for the hot deals.
At the height of my couponing, I got three Sunday papers delivered to my home. It made for very efficient clipping and I could get at least three of whatever hot deal i found--very fun! The thing about coupons is they are only guaranteed to subscribers of the paper, so it wasn't worth it to try to buy a Sunday paper from a box and miss out on some of the better coupons that were included with the subscribers' papers. I found some good coupons on Boodle.com, but they were never as consistently interesting and useful as what was in the paper.
I always keep my coupons in my car. My family is used to hearing me say, 'Oh, wait! I have a coupon for that!" whenever we want to buy something on impulse.
I do shop at different stores--my store loyalty is mostly gone because of couponing. I buy a lot at Costco for convenience, but it's hardly ever the best deal for things like pasta and cereal and canned goods. I just like their produce and frozen items best. I think that's another advantage of couponing when you can: you can allow yourself to splurge because you've cut back somewhere else.
Hope this helps. Good for you! Keep us posted!