S.
Hi Trish,
I am a speech-language pathologist and have worked with many young children with autism spectrum disorders. The first priority is, obviously,for her safety. I have worked with some children that required intervention in their tantrums because they posed a danger to themselves (banging their heads on floors, walls, etc.). It is not uncommon for children with autism spectrum disorders to be challenged by emotional regulation. If your therapists are unable to guide you in this area, you may want to ask them if they could refer you to someone who could.
Are you a member of ASCC (Autism Society of Collin County)? Being a part of a support group will not only tie you to other moms who could offer referrals, but they could also share personal experiences with you. I would also recommend you consider joining the Early Childhood PTA, once your child is old enough to attend PPCD in your local school district. The support of other families, and the knowledge shared by parents of children just a little older than yours, could be so helpful.
I hope your therapists are able to help you develop strategies that will prove helpful to both you and your daughter.
Best Regards,
S.