Hi there! My son is 2 also, and on the advice of our pediatrician, we've just had ECI (early childhood intervention)come to evaluate him to make sure all is well and to give us some assistance on helping him talk. It's free for 6 months, and then your insurance would kick in, or they'll do a pay schedule based on your income. I would ask your pediatrician about that...my husband insists nothing is "wrong" with him, and I agree, but we still need to get some ideas on how to help him, you know? They only work with children up to 3, so it's something you should look into soon. They've only come once so far for the evaluation, but I got tons of things to do already, and Joseph's started speaking kinda out of the blue since then. They will come once/month with a speech therapist and will give us "homework" to work on for the month, until the next visit. They're professionals, so they'll know after seeing your daughter (free, and no commitments) what direction, if any, is needed (better than moms who don't know your daughter). Sometimes it could be something really simple, and would be appreciated to learn some quick tips. Other times it may take a little more work, but having professionals in that circumstance would be great too, ya know? That's our take on it at least.
Within a week of our evaluation, I heard him knock something over and said "young man, are you throwing a tantrum?" and he said "No I not" (shock!) and yesterday I was sitting on the couch with his dad, and he handed his dad his cup and said "dada...(pointed at me) mama give me more!" We had no idea he knew these words. One of the big (easy) things we learned was when reading books, point at the pictures and ask what they are. My son would just touch the picture but not saying anything, but now when reading his fruit salad book, he'll say "nan" for banana and very clearly say "bowl". That's enough about him though....I don't think the lack of speech is always a bad thing, but it's still something you may well want to get checked out.