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Gina,
So sorry to hear about your MIL, I think you should try American House. It is an assisted living facility, but they have a medical team on site, and offer hospice. I have a 92 year old grandfather in law at one in Royal Oak that is an older facility, but there are newer ones in Rochester Hills. Go to www.americanhouse.org.
They provide 3 meals daily, laundry service & housecleaning, they also make the bed daily and empty the trash. THey have a facilities director who plans events etc. Good luck.