E.S.
I haven't suffered a loss and I am so sorry for yours. I did have a high risk pregnancy including two clotting disorders. (also diabetes, hypothyroidism, high blood pressure) I don't remember what one of them was called (PCS, PBC, something like that) I take a baby asperin daily for it. The other is called MTHFR ( Methylenetetrahydrofolate reductase).
Methylenetetrahydrofolate reductase (MTHFR) is the name of a gene that produces an enzyme, also called methylenetetrahydrofolate reductase. If a person carries the genetic mutation that inhibits production of this enzyme, it can result in hyperhomocytenemia, which is an elevated level of an enzyme called homocysteine found in blood plasma.
When the body is deficient in methylenetetrahydrofolate reductase, its ability to absorb folate (also known as vitamin B9), such as folic acid, is inhibited. Folic acid and B9 are both essential to the development and health of the fetus.
Anyway, they found these things because I saw a fertility specialist before I became preggo because I have PCOS and my ob/gyn thought we may need help getting pregnant. She asked about family history of children and births and because my sister had problems with blood getting through the unbilical cord to the babies they tested me for things that could cause that.
I took Heparin shots twice a day for the first month and a half to two months. I had to psych myself up for every one and it always left a big bruise. I used my left side of my stomach for heparin and the right side for the insulin (It was 4x a day, but MUCH smaller needle!)
I was given a super neat pill called Metanx to take for the MTHFR. It has something in it to make your body absorb B vits and 16,000 units of B vits. I no longer feel like I'm 80! I wish it had been found earlier so I could have enjoyed my 20's and 30's more, but I have it now and WOW! My insurance changed and it is no longer covered on the new prescription plan because it is considered a 'medical food', but it's about $32 a month.
I hope this has been some help and feel free to PM me if there is anything else about these problems that I may know about. I could send links to some sites, but I'm sure you Googled your conditions too!
Good Luck! (Oh, by the way, we had two beautiful, healthy girls, born 6wks early- I got pre eclampsia. They are 2 1/2 now and the pediatrition still has a hard time believing they were so early!)
May your pregnancy go well and may your baby be healthy! Sending love and good wishes!
Beth