Hi H.,
Both my kids, have Hex Bugs. The cheaper one- Hex Bug "Nano."
They've had it for about 2 years now and it still works fine. So my kids are now 6 and 9.
They like it.
It is fun.
Then, their Aunty got them that race track thing for it too.
We have also given these Hex Bugs as gifts and it has always been a big hit. And when my kids have play dates, they all play with it.
And NO... it does NOT in any way, pull the child away from more constructive types of play. In fact, my kids, pretend play with their Hex bugs... and they construct things with other blocks etc., with it and play with it. It is imaginative. At least for my kids and the way they play with it.
I even like it myself. Its a cool fun toy. Some people collect it.
I don't know about any "remote control" Hex Bug. The Hex Bug Nano we have, does not have a remote.
And believe it or not, my kids' Hex Bugs have NOT gotten lost, though they are small things. Because... I TOLD my kids, that when they are done playing with it, to put it in its container on the shelf. I have a container for it. They have like 3 Hex Bugs each. And I tell them its easy to get lost, don't lose it, put it in its container when they are done. And they do.
And YES, my kids turn it off, when they are done.
So the batteries, are still the original batteries still.