K.M.
It seems that you just expressed my same problem. I have been talking to my doctor extensively about this and have been to several nutritionist appointments. I too have about 40 pounds to loose. It seems that the key is to eat no more than 5 oz of meat and 5 oz of carbs and eat twice that amount of fruit and veggies in a meal. Also, have one small treat a day, no more. If you cut treats out totally, you will binge. And Exercise at least 30 minutes a day, doing something that gets the heart rate up. Easier said than done for all of it. But research shows that these suggestions are the most stable and safe, and have long lasting effects. I yo yo between losing ten pounds one month and gaining it right back the next month. Cookies and ice cream are my weaknesses too! Good luck!!!