G.H.
Hello S.,
I understand your concern and pain. I have a son with ADHD and ODD too. Oppositional Difiant Disorder which usually goes hand in hand with ADHD......First and for most get some Counseling for your son's behavior problems if you can. Ask the school for help or ask them to recommend a counselor.....Try time out......Has your son been tested for ODD too? Google ODD on line and read what it says.....It's very helpful and gives you an insight to your son's behavior and a list of what it is.....
My son has ODD!!! He has all the signs....IT's very scary....We are now in therapy, at the beginning stages.....He will be retested for ADHD to verify he has it next week.
What area do you live in? I might be able to help you find a good counselor in your area.
I wish you the best. Contact me if you need further help.
Sincerely,
G. H.