We had this go through all 4 of my boys. First, wash all your towels in hot water and bleach, because it can be spread through direct contact. We also got the very expensive medicine, which takes it away for a time, but does not get rid of it. My oldest we took to the pediatirician, and he numbed the spots, cleaned it with alcohol, then took a tweezers, and took it off. His were very big.He never got them again. My younger ones got them in tiny spots that I didn't feel anything could help. Finally, when my two youngest, (2, and 3) had had them off and on for a YEAR, I broke down and cleaned them with alcohol, took a sterilzed needle, took the head off and removed the white thing inside with a sterilized tweezers. I learned very fast that it has to look like it is ready to pop for it not to hurt my child. I don't necessarily recommend that you do this yourself, but take her to the ped and insist they do it. It was the only thing that got rod of themfor my boys. they have not had themsince(it's been 2 years)
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