Boy I wish this site was around when we switched to cloth! I own about 8 bum genius diapers. They were expensive, so I only use them when we are out or when we have sitters. Since I have 8 diapers, I have 8 inserts. But I did buy extra doublers for night time or long trips so we wouldn't have a pee explosion. I have 4 Bummis diaper covers (just the regular "cheap" ones). Actually, I have 4 medium and 4 large. My son was 15 months when we started so he got away with the medium and smaller prefolds for a few months and then I had to upgrade to bigger. He's now 31 months, and he's fine with the regular size. I don't have the shower thing that attatches to the toilet and I don't use special detergent. I use the flushable diaper liners (I get them at cottonbabies.com) they look like long dryer sheets and they work great. They even make it through a few washes. I forgot to mention that I have about 20 prefolds and I can go about 2.5 days between washes. My water bill did go up, but I wasn't spending any money on diapers so it might have evened out.
My diapers go through 2 cycles when I wash them. The first is hot water with a slightly smaller amount of detergent than I would normally use, a 1/2 cup of baking soda, and vinegar for the rinse cycle (get a Downy ball and fill it to the line). The second cycle is a repeat of the baking soda and vinegar and cold water (no detergent).
I use the dryer for my diapers. I have no place to line dry them. The only things that don't go in the dryer and the pocket diapers. They just hang on a chair or my mantle and they don't take too long to dry. I also throw a couple of tennis balls in the dryer to help with the static (the liners go in too and they always get stuck to diapers) and speed up the drying.
After using the same diapers for months, they started to smell so bad everytime they got wet. So I found a way to really super clean them. I was surprised to see that all the stains came out along with the smells. The site I found had 2 different ways to do it and since mine were extra gross, I did both. First I put all my diapers, inserts, covers, doublers in to hot water with oxyclean powder for about 4 hrs. Then I washed the diapers in hot water with a couple of drops of dish soap. When that wash was done, I cold rinsed them 2 times. I'm telling you, we're all surprised at how nice everything came out. It's like they're brand new! By the way, I just checked, this info came from diapersafari.com and it was called Diaper 911!
One last thing that I found useful. When we started on our cloth diaper quest, I bought the gerber ones from the store. Both the prefolds and the flat ones. The prefolds were small, so they didn't last long. The flat ones we're still using. I fold them long ways in 3 (like a letter in a long envelope) and then in half. I then lay it on top of the prefold (it takes up a little more than half the prefold) as extra absorbancy when I'm out of doublers. They work great that way (not so great as actual diapers).
Remembered something else. We have the diaper champ to store our messy diapers, and this is still what we use for the cloth. It contains the smell better than it does for disposable. I have no problems with the smelly diapers that other cloth moms talk about. And I don't soak them either. I just take the trash bag from the champ to the washing machine and dump them in. We do own 2 of the Bummis diaper totes (1 small & 1 large) for when we're out or on vacation.
Now I wrote a novel. I'm sorry and I hope this helps : )
If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
T.