i have almost 3yr old son and he does crazy things like he scream and bite his toys or he bouces his head up and down or run around in circle or bangs his head into a wall like why is he doin that?? will he bcome worst wen he is older???
this is your 3rd question today.
Do you have a 3 month old + an almost 3 year old?
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You should talk to the pedi about this and see about some evaluations there may be nothing or there may be sensory issues or adhd or any other issue that causes these actions ... my son did many of these things until we got him evaluated and were able to create a plan to help him cope with his issues, he is 5 and still has his moments but over all he is pretty typical.
A.:
You are new to mamapedia. You have asked 3 questions - there is no limit - however, I am trying to understand if you have 1 or 2 kids....
first post is an infant with a flat head and bumps. second is a love question and this one...
At 3 if he's banging his head into a wall - well - it's an attention thing. You say NO, he reacts by banging his head, you cave and he gets his way.
Does he have any constructive play dates or ways to get his energy out?
Will it become worse? Most likely if you don't take control NOW and set rules and boundaries. Your husband should be on board with you.
If you aren't married (which going by your #2 question, you are not) find out if your father will spend time with him so he can get a positive role model. If that can't happen - look into Boys and Girls Club or the YMCA.
Talk to your pediatrician about his behavior. Make a list of the things he does so when you go in you don't forget. Ensure that when you make your appointment that you tell the scheduler that you have many things to go over with him/her and will need more than 10 minutes.
Sounds like you have a small place and no one for him to play with.
Do you spend alot of time with him? He may want your attention more...that could be a possibility. Try painting, reading, and playing with him and see how that does. Also, take him to his pediatrician and tell the dr. of his behavior, just to be on the safe side :*)
This does not sound like normal behavior to me. Has he met all his developmental milestones? Is this recent behavior or has it been going on for a while? There could be something going on that would benefit from some type of therapy. I would at the very least talk to your pediatrician about it. I would push for an evaluation by a developmental pediatrician as well.
A., is he the same child who has trouble with his head? When you talk to the doctor about the problem with his head and neck, talk about this too. This is very important.
Dawn
