HELP!!! I NEED A JOB and Then Some!!!!

Updated on February 18, 2007
C. asks from Dallas, TX
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Hello everyone. I am totally stressed out! I have been job-hunting for the past 6 months and NO ONE will HIRE ME! I can't even get an email response. What am I doing wrong?! My resume looks good. I have ample experience. Never been to college; but, have heard from reliable sources, that my life/professional experiences are equivalent to an Associate Degree. Unfortunately, even for office help they want you to have a degree or some college coursework (and then they only want to pay like $24K). I've done better than that WITHOUT the degree!

My husband, a Police Officer, is the sole money-maker in our home and just to stay above water (barely), he has to work at least 75hours a week!!!! At least!!! The bills are piling up! He gets stressed out easily; and then we argue!!! (Given our background, before he became a cop, he never had steady income worth anything--but I DID!-- and now the tables have turned.. of course, now we have 3 more children, a mortgage and car note, etc. etc. so, it is definitely more challenging at this point...) I hate the feeling that being a SAHM is my duty, but it's not enough to help financially. Getting a JOB = Daycare $$$$ for 2! $$$ that could go to bills... so, what's the point??!!?!

I have tried my own business as a Make-up Artist, but everyone wants a 'hook-up'. I can't afford to rely on that any longer. My background is Administrative Support and Customer Service. From Hotel to Mega Church to University, my experience includes plenty! I don't understand what else I can do. Even my 'friends' that know someone who knows someone can't pull it off! I know I can sell myself well... I just need the opportunity!

The only thing I can think of is that I'm being PUNISHED for being a WOMAN & MOTHER!!! My last two jobs led to demise due to me having babies. They were too afraid to let me go(lawsuit), so they made life miserable for me. And, now my resume reflects that in the time-gaps. I can't win for losing! It may sound like I'm whining, but I absolutely stand by my experiences with my former employers' poor treatment to me during and after my pregnancies. Unlike cramps and labor pains, I guess I can't blame THEIR insensitivity on EVE!!!!

So, if ANYONE knows of any places that are hiring where I could contribute Administratively or in Customer Service, I would appreciate your help! I would also love your input on Motherhood vs. the World!!! I personally feel like we are constantly in battle! Thanks!

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D.W.

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When I wanted to add a little extra I went to the American Airline Center. They hire for the hockey and basketball games plus concerts. I did ushering aorund my hubby's schedule. I loved it! They also have people who sell things in the fan shops. It is nights and weekends and VERY low stress.

Now that I am up to 4 kiddos, I look at my job as trying to make my DH's hard earned money go as far as possible! BArgain hunting, Thrift Stores, price matching--- it has become a game.

I read somewhere that you have to make >40K/year to actuallbe making ANYTHING if you have to pay for day care, extra doc visits, more eating out etc....

Feel free to e-mail me :-)

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A.C.

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Try Timewarner site they have just taken over Comcast current customers in the area. Here is the website, they have customer care positions as well as adminstrative support..

http://www.timewarner.com/corp/careers/jobtools_us/index....

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C.K.

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Hey, C..

I can soooooo relate to your job search experience. I, too, feel like I'm being ousted because of a time gap in my resume. When I left Bank One as a Business Analyst in November of 2001 I was earning about $60K annually without a degree. However, I was pregnant with my second child and I had a miscarriage the previous year and didn't want to risk it again because my job at the bank was hugely stressful...about 75% travel. So, I opted to resign and stay home to nurture my pregnancy. After my second daughter was born the Executive Director of her daycare asked me if I'd come work for him part time and do some marketing to increase enrollment at the day school. I said, yes. That was only part time. Then after I'd increased the enrollment there by about 70% they let me go. At that point I started my own part time biz. Although I missed the good money I was making at the bank, it was wonderful being able to be at home with my 8 year old special needs daughter in the afternoons helping her with her homework. Unfortunately, my marriage is falling apart and my husband cannot support us...and my children need good, quality, affordable group health insurance.

I've sent out about 30 resumes through Monster.com, company websites and newspaper ads and haven't gotten one nibble. The only people who are responding to my resume on Monster are multi-level marketing companies and sales positions that are commission-only with no benefits. I need insurance for my kids!

Someone at church told me tonight that I need to get involved in a business/job networking group. I think that is my next step.

As for your job search...I don't exactly know what you qualifications are but my church is looking for a new Office Manager. It's Wilshire Baptist Church on Abrams at Mockingbird. The lady who just left that position is still there...she's just moved up the work in the music ministry office...and she doesn't have a degree either. The hiring manager's name is Paul Johnson. I'm not sure what it pays but it's a great group of people and I think would be a fun job. I'd rather not work there because it's my own church. Something rather risky about working where you go to church. Anyway, feel free to mention my name...Cathy King.

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L.G.

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Hey C.! I have the perfect thing for you! This is a website to review on how to make enough money in the next 24-36 months to walk away and BE DONE! Go to www.TheBestOnlineSystem.com and enter access code 125740. Then call us as soon as you're done, toll free, at 1-888-258-3155!Timing is CRITICAL, so it's important we talk to you right away!! Talk with you soon!

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M.P.

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Hi my name is M. and i know what your going through... I might have a solution, Time Warner Cable is hiring call center reps and the pay is 11-14/hr.. Its enough to help out, also all shifts are available.. send you resume to www.twcable.com and fill the application.... Also if you send me your name i can tell my friend in recuiting about you.. Good Luck with your search!!

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T.C.

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You might try a temp agency and do temp to hire. That is how I got my job. It let's you prove yourself.

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