I have no school age kids yet. But, I am totally sure that I would feel the same way as you do... and my husband would take it a heck of a lot further.
The point that some kid brought a weapon that could seriously harm another student to school is a huge issue. I don't care if it is "just a BB gun". If this child had another, more serious gun at his disposal, he could well have brought that one. And, lets not forget that BB guns do not shoot out nerf balls. If a person got shot in the eye or mouth, or even ear, with a BB gun, very serious consequences could come of it.
Let me get this straight, the kid shot, several times, outside on the playground... and then even inside the building, at his locker? What happened to security that this child
A. Had a gun at school, and it was not confiscated?
B. Had a gun at school, started shooting it, and it wasn't confiscated before he had a chance to shoot inside and outside the building?
Where are the teachers, etc, in this situation? Did they not hear a gun being discharged? I know they don't make that much noise... but still.
Questions for you, what policies does the school system have in place for notifying parents when a child brings a weapon, of any kind to the school? that includes anything that is brought that has no other purpose than harming people: knifes, guns, martial arts weaponry, etc. (I mean, anything is a weapon... but these things are not acceptable in any case at a school.) Let me tell you, a BB gun can do more harm than a knife, simply because it has a longer range than a knife.
I seriously would check into the policies of the school district and the school, itself. Then, I would try and get some of those policies changed, or added, if they dont' go far enough. I understand that raising unneccesary alarm is not acceptable, either. But, a gun is a gun. And I do not think this can be chaulked up to "boys will be boys".
by the way, this is coming from someone who had a friend shot and killed by a 13-year-old boy when she was 14. She was shot through the eye. It was not a BB gun. But, the eye is extremely vulnerable, as is the rest of the head. I also have a friend that was "in the wrong place at the wrong time" and was shot in the head during a convenience store robbery. She had just graduated high school, 3rd in the class, and was planning on college, career, etc. She suffered a massive brain injury and ended up having to re-teach herself literally how to eat, let alone read and write. Guns are dangerous... any guns, in the hands of children. You need to know about this stuff, you are not crazy.
What school did this happen at? I don't want my child, when he is old enough, to be in that district.
Good luck... I'd fight this, with all you have.
OKAY... I tried and can't keep my mouth (or fingers) quiet. Yes, we did a lot of things when we were younger that were legal then that aren't now, such as some people being able to ride around in the back of a pickup truck (which was illegal when I was a child, and I am not from a progressive state on these issues). However, that was not done with the intention of harming another individual. Cap pistals, BB guns, etc... all still legal. But a school is never the right place to bring a weapon, of any kind. This boy brought this with the intention of shooting at other students. This is the key... intention. Also, laws are in place today because yesterday, people got seriously hurt or killed, when it was legal to do things that aren't legal now. You don't get things to become illegal on a theory... there has to be proof.
Yes, this can cause a symptom of mass hysteria. But there will be more mass hysteria if parents are feeling that their kids are not being adequately protected, than if the school informs the parent. And I totally agree, they don't have to disclose a name to inform you that a 5th grader--- roughly what, 10 or 11-years-old?, brings a gun to school and has been shooting at kids on the playground. That bullet that bounced off his locker and hit him could've hit another student, like someone else said, in a very sensitive spot, like a major artery.
There are a bunch of different opinions on this subject, mine are pretty strong, probably because I grew up in a city where there were not adequate gun control laws, and kids got killed on a regular basis because others were just playing around. This kid sounds like he was experimenting with how much he can get away with in the realm of school shootings and harming other children. The school, thankfully, at least, expelled him. Hopefully, his parents will get him some help, and not be outraged at the school for their response to him, which would only serve to validate his behavior.