Help! 6Yr Old Is So Sweet but Also a Big Bully!

Tell them to try Martial Arts. In many schools they teach children deiscipline, respect and self confindence. The lack of the later can often times result in children acting out. It will allow her to also get out some of the aggression she is obviously experiencing and teach her the proper ways to express and relieve it. Suggest that they do a search of their area and go visit some schools. If they live in the southern O.P. or Olathe area tell them to check out Olathe Karate Academy. It is my school and we have dealt with many children with similar issues.

Good luck!

THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT LITTLE GIRLS THAT MAKE THEM SOOO SNEAKY. i HONESTLY BELIEVE SOME OF US ARE BORN WITH IT. iTS JUST BEST TO TEACH HER ABOUT STRANGER DANGER. DONT SCARE HER BUT JUST BE AS HONEST AS YOU CAN ABOUT WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE THAT SURROUND US. AND BE VERY CONISTANT WITH WHATERVER PUNISHMENT SHE DISHES OUT FOR THIS CHILD. ITS PROBABLY JUST A STAGE THAT SHE WILL EVENTUALLY GROW OUT OF, ALSO TRY REWARDING HER GOOD BEHAVIOR AND PRAISE HER OFTEN WHEN SHE MAKES THE RIGHT CHOICES.

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They need to crack down on her and give her consequences for everything naughty she does. If they do not get control now, imagaine how she will be in several years. Even though she is only 6, she can understand expectations and following rules. They need to clearly explain what and how she needs to act and what will happen if she does not behave properly. They may also want to set up a rewards system so that she can "earn" things when she does behave and "lose" them when she misbehaves. If this continues, I would take her to a child psychologist to be evaluated. The psych can also give parenting advise. THis may seem harsh, but she needs to understand that she is not the one in control. Good luck.