I use the top of the line stainless All Clad. They are not cheap by far but they are great quality pots and pans. Mine are over 6 yrs old and they still look brand new.
I recall the smallest pan being around $120 and I bought an 8-10 piece set for around $600. I have added to my collection. VERY much worth it.
I also use a lot of Lodge Cast iron and LOVE it as well. Once it is seasoned just right, it is perfect! I still use a coue of pieces of cast iron that was passed down from both of my Grandmother's. Love it
My mom has a set of Saladmaster that she got when I was a toddler (YEARS AGO) that she still uses and they still look new.
I don't know about the pans that flake, etc . because I've never used them. I do know there's a lot of talk going around about how dangerous they are, yada yada.... If you look hard enough, you can find something wrong with everything we use and do. Just use common sense about things.