Hi there,
I am a licensed mortgage loan originator in Texas and also own a National legal consulting company, specializing in mortgage loan analysis and resolution. We process short sales all over the country and list and sell them in the Dallas/Ft.Worth area in Texas. This is not a solicitation for your business, only my professional opinion.
There is nothing short about a short sale. Many of your time-related questions will depend on the Listing Agent and their level of expertise, how long they have had the seller's file submitted to their Lender, the type of loan the seller has, the servicing Lender who the loan is with, the underlying Investor of the mortgage backed security, whether the seller has mortgage insurance in their loan, and finally, if there are multiple liens on the property. We have worked with every major lender and servicer and sometimes the stars align and the seller's file glides right through, and others, if can take 6+ months for them to acknowledge there is even a request in their system.
You can submit your earnest money at the time of your offer, but it is not necessary. Often, this depends on the practice of the Listing Agent.
I would encourage you to NOT be wary of the short sale process, especially since you love the house and currently have a stable place to live. Since you own your current home, make sure you can qualify with both payments because if it hasn't sold at the time you are applying for your new loan, you are no longer allowed to get a renter and lease to offset the current payment unless you owe less than 70% of the home's value. Please select your mortgage professional and begin the pre-approval process now, so that you don't wait until the short sale is approved to begin. Often short sale approvals only last several weeks or 1 month, and in this lending environment, that is sometimes not long enough to process your new loan, and you can run the risk of the seller's lender moving to foreclose if you don't close by the date of their approval.
Best of luck and if you have additional questions, please feel free to message me.
C.