R.S.
You could change the feeling to hand-me-love. I have three granddaughters -- the oldest in one family hands down clothes to her younger cousins, my two granddaughters in the other family--WHO LOVE WHAT THEY GET.
The youngest, who is six years younger than the my oldest granddaughter, got so upset (at age 3) that none of the hand-me-downs fit (too big), that I now buy a few things for her in her size, take the tags off, wash them and put them in the hand me down bag so she can find some things that fit that she thinks were handed down from her cousin to her. It's almost like Christmas when the girls root through and try on the hand-me-downs--they just love them.
It's also interesting to note that when the younger girls receive compliments, they always say -- I got this from Sara--the younger girls kind of idolize their older cousin -- I believe this can be fostered in sisters, too. The younger Annie enjoys receiving clothes that no longer fit her older sister, Ellie.