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instead of the smokies/meatballs....which are both usually in messy sauce - what about an order of fried chicken, trash wings (which are like hot wings, but without the sauce), or a tray of deli/dollar sandwiches?
I'm just thinking of ways to contain the mess....
As for recipes, I love party food! I am soooo thankful that we have great party opportunities each & every year!
Bloody Mary Appetizers: the larger cherry/grape tomatoes, tops cut off & scoop out some pulp. Finely mince the tops/pulp, some cucumbers, & some onion....& combine with some ground celery. Pour a little vodka over the vegie mix, add some Tabasco sauce, S&P, & some garlic powder. You want it compact-able....so you can load it back into the tomatoes! Let the vegie mix meld for a few hours, & then stuff the tomatoes. Yumm.
Italian Salad Shells: use the larger-size pasta shells. Cook, drain, & let cool. Meanwhile, combine your favorite Italian salad....I use a mix of lettuces, red onion, black olives, pepperoncini, pimiento, & marinated artichoke hearts. I have been known to add cucumbers. I use my fav fat-free Caesar dressing. Moving on....mince the salad & stuff the pasta. I sprinkle some Parmesan on top. Very tasty!
Good Luck....parties are fun!