Going to Gramas "Nick Nack" Beach House

Ask Grama if you can move everything up above your child's reach or move it to another room to which you'll keep the door closed. I've done just that for other visitors to my home. Most everythingI have now at a child's level is not fragile and I dont mind if the child plays with it. Could that be the case with Grama?

At the very least I'd tell Grama your concern.

Another idea is to take a play pen and put him there with his toys from time to time. You might be surprised at how quickly he learns to not touch. It will take a few hours of follow up but he just might be able to behave in a manner acceptable to Grama.

Good luck! M.

I used to work with a little girl who was into everything. I finally let touch stuff, but said she could only do it with one finger. That way it took away the urge to touch and play with things.

By 14 months old, your child should know what the word no means and be able to mind it. Don't let one single incident pass without reminding your child that gramma's knick knacks are off limits. My children also have a Knick Knack Queen for a grandma, and it's a total pain. The good news is that this is a prime learning experience for your child, the bad news is that this might not be the relaxing vacation you were hoping for. Further good news is that this vacation will set the stage for future ones. Good Luck. God Bless.

ask your mom if she would mind moving everything breakable above the 3 foot level. You might need to do some more moving when you get there. It will help you and your little one have a much better time. Remember to bring your outlet plugs and portable cabinet locks too! Have a good time! K.

Good morning G.. I've had this situation happen several times & I think there's a happy medium. I think Grama should put anything away of value or deep sentimental feelings. Leave some items out that aren't dangerous to your little one but that if he/she touches, you can correct and tell him/her not to touch. You're teaching him/her to not touch but you won't have to worry about upsetting grama. Good luck & have a great vacation.

Put knick knacks in your house to prepare her. Tell her that she cant touch the prettys and just work with her. Parents have to take into concideration that others dont have to change their house due to our kids. They learn fast, she can do it. And dont forget, Grama had kids too. She knows as well.

Maybe you could kindly suggest to Grandma that she should put her really special ones up in a space where they can't be easily reached by your 1 year old who will be busy exploring and touching everything. I'm sure she'll understand your reasoning behind the request, and maybe you guys could do it together. That way you're both being proactive in the situation.
Hope this helps.

Hi G., could you ask grandma if it would be okay to move the nic nacs up higher? because it is also not fair that the child be constantly told over and over no. so that everyone can enjoy the retreat. I am sure grandma would understand your concerns. have a nice visit and a nice time at the beach.~L.~