T.B.
I would go back and talk to the counselor again. There is a chance that it is too late in the fiscal year to get financial aid...But you should fill out your fafsa (http://www.fafsa.ed.gov/) anyways.
Financial aid is first come first serve, so the sooner you fill out your fafsa the more likely you will get grants and other assistance. Then you will fill your fafsa out again next year (as soon as your tax information comes in). In your essays focus on how much you need the assistance...since your single there is no extra income...you need daycare...insurance for two...the rise in education fees...the drop in economy...
Good luck!