Gift for Kid Joining Army?

Updated on February 12, 2017
M.L. asks from Conneaut, OH
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Sorry for awkward wording. An acquaintance 's. Son is joining the military and they are quickly putting together a party for him... should I bring a gift and what is appropriate?? Thanks

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M.6.

answers from New York on

I just had 2 kids go through basic (one is actually still there) - one Army and one Air Force.

They really cannot bring anything at all. $50 is the max they can arrive with (and they don't need money anyways, as they are issued an Eagle Card with funds advanced from their pay) so I wouldn't do money. Stamps, envelopes, paper are all ok. We also gave our son a religious medallion that he could wear around his neck (Soldier of God). However, that may be too personal - I don't know his faith or how close you are to this kid. They can also bring a bible.

The biggest gift you can give to ANY kid in basic is the gift of letter writing. Get his address from the parents as soon as they have it (usually in about 10 days after he leaves processing) and start writing. Seriously, they cannot have too many letters!!! They have to do push ups for them, but they don't care - I swear. When you send letters, use only white envelopes, no markings or stickers on the outside, no extra writing, must have return address or it will be destroyed. Write in the letter that he does not have to write back - they are exhausted. Include an extra strip of stamps occasionally in your letters - they are like gold at Basic. Write positive, uplifting, messages. Funny jokes are great. Silly anagrams of his name. If you want, do a little questionnaire that he can just fill in the blank like "my drill sgt yells more than _________", "my favorite thing to eat here is __________" and include a return SASE with it so all he has to do is fill in a few blanks and put it in the envelope you provide.

Please thank him for serving our great country!!!

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M.G.

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Good practical suggestions below.
If it were me, and I didn't know them very well, I'd probably reach out and ask my friend/aquaintance what would be helpful.

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J.C.

answers from Anchorage on

Cash and phone cards. When headed out to Basic and AIT what you are allowed to have is severely limited, but cash will allow him to buy things he may need during that time from the PX.

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J.K.

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My friend's son recently graduated from basic training. The things that were most useful while there were cash, postage stamps, postcards and paper/envelopes, pens.

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A.T.

answers from Dayton on

Find army gear. Sweatshirts, gymbags, knitted hats for cold weather. Make sure to get his mom the shirt that says ARMY MOM

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H.W.

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Remember that any special things would be confiscated if he took them. I remember going to basic training and saying goodbye to my walkman for a couple months. Jill K's suggestions are excellent.

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C.C.

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The gift of prayers and thanks.

And - a more tangible gift for his parents, to give them an extra boost in their transition into sending their son into this new experience.

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