C.G.
I am honestly surprised by your doctor's reaction. This type of thing happens ALL the time. My best friend thought she was 8 weeks pregnant, but turns out she calculated her cycle wrong (due to a trip to Italy) and she was only 5 1/2 weeks. She was freaked out at her ultrasound because, according to where she (and her doctor) THOUGHT she was, she was measuring small. They couldn't even see the baby at all during the u/s, just the sac. She feared she had a blighted ovum or some other defect. Well, let me just say, her baby was born in July, perfect as can be!
If you are supposed to be 8 weeks and the baby is measuring 7 1/2 weeks, I am not sure what the issue is. It is very conceivable that you could be off on your cycle calc by a few days...hey, my friend was off by a few weeks! And doctor's measurements are off too, so don't let them tell you they have it down to an exact science. Neither of my pregnancies measuerd exactly in sync with how many weeks I was supposedly along anyway. They were always off a little bit. The key is how they are growing and developing as you move along. This is WAY too soon for anyone to be throwing up a red flag...you're measurements are too close for that.
Please try not to worry. Know that you ARE pregnant and keep in mind how jaded some doctors can be these days. They see this stuff everyday, so to them it's just a job. They become numb to the fact that this is a person's BABY, so they don't always realize when they are telling us things that could potentially devastate us. When I was pg with my first, I was told at 5 1/2 weeks along I had a greater than 90% chance of miscarriage because my progesterone was dangerously low. I thought all hope was lost. My beautiful daughter will turn 5 in February...so keep the faith! Doctors don't always know. Trust that everything is going to be fine.
Hang in there and keep us posted! Best of luck and congrats on your baby!!!