Hi, J.!
Congratulations on your newest addition!
Ok, so first of all, as I'm sure you know, babies are just gassy little creatures. Sometimes, it's just something that they need to outgrow.
However, you can do a few things to help things improve. The first thing I suggest is getting some good quality Gripe Water from your local health food store. The fennel in it often helps quite a bit. You can also drink several cups of Cammomile tea a day, as some of the calming, soothing properties will travel to your milk.
You can also take your son to a good chiropractor for some adjustments & craniosacral therapy (I have a FABULOUS dr. in Forks Township/Easton that I'd be happy to suggest!).
Lastly, I wonder if your son is "high needs".--Have you ever read anything by Dr. Sears or looked at his site? --www.AskDrSears.com has some great info on it! If he is high needs, at the risk of sounding like a sales girl, I really can't say enough good things about baby slings! Even if your baby is not colicky--they're just a life saver!!! Again, not to sound too sales pitchy, but I make baby slings & am actually having a huge sale on Friday (along w/ everyone else!).
If you go to www.ThingaMaSling.com on Friday & enter coupon code "Black Friday" it will get you 15% off your entire purchase! It's good all day long, but only on Friday.
I hope that you find some relief. Don't worry--it WILL pass!!!
Happy Thanksgiving!
A.