I'm very sorry this has happened to you and I can only imagine how hard it must be with the worry and all. This is a situation I'd like you to face head on, so to speak. Many people face what you are facing, but that doesn't make it any easier for you. Immediately request your free credit report if you haven't done so this year. If you do it before the 1st, you can request it again in 2008, because you are entitled to one free report annually. Go to annualcreditreport.com. You'll see the company that the judgement is for, but most importantly, you'll see any other creditors that may be a problem for you. If you are getting a refund each year, it's a very good idea to get that money each month. How do you do that? Go to your payroll or personnel department and request a form W-4. This is the form you fill out when you start your job. It tells your employer how much to take out of your pay for taxes. Your employer sends this money to the IRS and they hold it all year with no interest. If you request the first Worksheet, you will see in the upper left hand corner that you can change your W-4 ANY time you want as many times as you want. Most people fill it out once with 0 or 1 allowance and then never change it again. If you read ever so carefully, with a fine tooth comb, every single line on the worksheet, you will find that you probably qualify for more allowances then you are taking. With one child, you may qualify for 5 or 6. By changing your W-4, you will increase the size of each paycheck, because your employer will take out less. You will have more cash to live on. In the meantime, please take a good look at your credit report, because you want to be aware if other creditors are behind. I wish you the best and if you want to contact me via this site, please do.
Rosalind