Hi Malia,
I asked my husband about this, and he said that it shouldn't matter that the person hasn't called their insurance company. The fact that you have the police report is proof of their negligence. And your own company should be helping you if you can't get the other company to budge.
My husband said that the fact that you only carry liability doesn't have anything to do with it. Because neither insurance company is dealing fairly with you, you need to call the insurance commissioner.
After all this is taken care of, you ought to change insurance companies. You might save money using a company like yours, but the insurance isn't worth much if they don't do their job. We don't mind paying more for insurance in order to have a reputable company that is on our side, even when they have to pay for us.
My husband was hit by a guy who had "jack-leg" insurance. They wouldn't even send out an adjustor - my husband had to drive to him. They would only agree to fix the car by using certain places - these body shops only pay 50% of the hourly wage as the regular shops. We knew that the reason these workers will accept half a regular wage is because they are either not good or experienced at their job, or they are working illegally here.
We called our own insurance company, and they explained that if we wanted, they would handle it, and we could take our car where we wanted. We used our insurance company's approved list, found a wonderful place, and went ahead and paid our deductible. Our insurance paid the rest - the total bill was 3 times what the other place offered because, in addition to the low wage rates they cover, there was more damage underneath that they would have refused to pay to fix.
This process is called subrogation. What happens, Malia, is you front your deductible, and you let YOUR insurance people fight with the other company. That company might say no to paying, but what happens is, one of your insurance company's people hits one of theirs, and your insurance company refuses to pay THAT claim until your claim is paid TO THEM. THAT'S how they get their money. And as soon as they get it, they reimburse your deductible. That's what we did, and actually got our $1000 deductible back within a month or 6 weeks, if I am remembering right. (It was very quick.)
If your insurance company won't do this for you, then you shouldn't have a relationship with them. I don't have Allstate insurance, but I DO like their advertisements on TV about the guy who is always hitting everything (the Mayhem Guy) who says if you have an insurance company who you choose your own rate (or however they say it), you could be paying to fix your car yourself.
I would NOT let this go. You pay money every month to cover yourself. And this didn't happen in a parking lot where people usually have to pay to fix their own car. This accident was not your fault and you shouldn't let ANYONE weasel out of it, including your own insurance. However, you should be willing to let them subrogate - that's part of what you pay for in your monthly premiums.
Monday morning, if you haven't already, call your own insurance company and tell them that you will be making a complaint to the insurance commissioner about what is going on. You will start with a complaint about the other company. You want your own insurance to handle this by subrogation, and if you meet no resistance and your car is fixed through this, you will not have any reason to take your complaint with the insurance commission any further. They will understand what this means, that if they don't handle this for you, that you will add THEM to the complaint. I think this might help more than just telling them you'll take them to small claims court.
Good luck, and don't flinch.
Dawn