I know you have many other responses, but I firmly believe in BeautiControl products. I love them so much that I became a consultant for the discount for myself. I don't host parties or anything like that, but if someone asks a question where I think one of their products would help I will mention it.
So, BeautiControl has many items specifically designed for women in their 40's. They have a whole skin care line for women ages 40+, and many specialty products for specific problem areas. For those fine lines around the eyes, they sell Regeneration Time to Go Capsules with Retinol Eye Serum. They also sell Platinum Regeneration Line Reversal Wrinkle Creme. Finally, they sell a wrinkle filler pen that to help plump up fine lines and wrinkles during the day. I know women who have used all of these products and I am amazed. Within a couple of weeks I see a major difference in their skin and wrinkles. As another person here mentioned, the key to any product is using it every day/night.
So, I would suggest that you use the Regeneration Time to Go Time Capsules to start out. They come in a box of 30 capsules, and each capsule has 2 applications for each eye (4 applications total). So, it should last you 2 months. I would love to give you a sample to try for a couple of days. It costs $35, although I can give it to you for $20 since you are new to BeautiControl and I would like you to try them out. Send me a message if you are interested in the sample or buying the product. Believe me, you will be amazed! All BeautiControl products come with a money back guarantee, so you can't go wrong.
Here is my website as well:
http://www.beautipage.com/cdrymalski/index.asp