B.R.
Hi-
I have done this kind of trip several times with my son (now 13 months) so I know what you are going through! Here are some ideas off the top of my head:
- Perhaps a nursing pillow might help? My Brest Friend has an inflatable nursing pillow so at least he could be lying down. I used that when my son was younger.
- I find that having my Ergo carrier on flights is key - he is cozy and my hands are free. Useful for getting on the plane, going to the bathroom, etc.
- Take some small toys, a favorite and a new thing to keep his attention. He will not sleep the whole way so you need some distraction for both of you!
- The video screens can often be a good source of entertainment for them. My son doesn't watch TV at home so it is sort of a novelty for a few minutes.
- I also take a small blanket (like one of the ones from the hospital) and put it on the floor so if he wants to sit/crawl I'm not quite as grossed out by the floor! :)
- snacks for both of you! and don't forget to drink water, which does mean you'll have to go to the bathroom but you can ask someone else to watch the baby if he's sleeping and you don't want to take him with you.
- ask for help every step of the way! when you are traveling along people can be more helpful. not always, but it never hurts to ask. When you check in see if they can save an empty seat next to you, for example.
Let me know if there is anything else I can help with - I'm traveling this week with my son by myself again (3rd time in a month) so I feel your pain, so to speak!
Bon voyage!