First Time Buyer--Single Mom

Updated on March 09, 2009
F.C. asks from Mesquite, TX
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I'm a single mom that has 3 kids, 17 daughter(Graduates this May), 16 son( Junior), 11 ( 5th grader)son. Trying to make a new life for my kids.....we have gone through alot in the last year. First I was laid off of work in Feb 2008, very hard after being with no work for 3 months, found one job and turned out to be okay, but then I came back into the Apartment business, still here working and it all over again. Toward the end of the year lost my grandmother in Early Dec and then my uncle in late Dec 2008. Now I think it is about time to get something I can call my own for my kids. Our own place. Where we are not having to move place to place.
My question would be I need help buying a house, price, location and not being screwed at the end. I do not have any area at this time either so area would be great too..... Someone(Realtor) that will be willing to work for me not me for them.... I'm all about customer service. I am a Manager.

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E.S.

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Good Morning Fina,

I have a wonderful realtor that can help you. Her name is Rachel White. She once told me that she does not "sell" houses. She helps people find homes. She is the sweetest woman and is extremely knowlegable. She puts your needs FIRST. She can help you find exectly what you need without any pressure. ###-###-#### Good luck to you.

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C.M.

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Before you do anything - ANYTHING - you need to get pre-approved for your mortgage. I'm a licensed mortgage broker and I'm all for people buying - there are many deals to be had right now, but from what you described of your job situation in the last year, you're going to have a tough time with qualifying. Also, there are NO $0 down loans anymore (unless you have a VA benefit). FHA loans are the lowest down payment out there and they require at a minimum 620 credit score, full income/asset documentation and 3.5% down.

As you know, even qualifying for a lease nowadays requires a professional to put it together to show the applicant in the best light. You're welcome to call me to go over the details. Lending is not what it used to me.

C. McElroy
Branch Manager, Liberty Residential Mortgage
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M.W.

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We were looking to rent because we didn't have much for a down payment. It turns out that buying was a cheaper option & our monthly payment for a house (albeit modest) is lower than an apartment would have been.

We got an FHA loan, which requires only a 3% down payment. We also got our seller to agree to pay all closing costs.

You can look into programs which offer down payment assistance for first time buyers. I think Garland offers one that gives up to $10,000. There are certain criteria you have to meet to receive the money.

Good luck!

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L.C.

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I would highly recommend Brett Gray with Dave Perry-Miller Associates. He is an awesome realtor. We used him for our move to Dallas from San Antonio. We then recommended him to five other people who were also buying and they will all vouch for him, too. You will love him.
His number is ###-###-#### and email is ____@____.com. I will also recommend a mortgage broker who is great to work with, too. He did a great job for us and was very responsive. His name is Robert Nunez with Nunez Lending. His number is ###-###-####
and email ____@____.com website is http://www.nunezlending.com

Best of luck. They will treat you right. I personally know the both of them and they appreciately my referrals.

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B.W.

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I am a single mom and bought my first house five years ago.....my realtor was the best, sending me listings to look at via email and I would pick the ones I wanted to see in person....great mortgage company as well that knew all the goodies to benefit me and how to get them - Service First.....I can look her up with her information if interested......I think she primarlity works in East Dallas........

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A.M.

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i help my client to the end. single mom-----my lender is a christian single mom who has approved 9 people who have gotten rejected....depending on where you will be county wise--i can get you 7500 freee money for home
i just bid on 150k home-we won for 79 and she single momand received 7500-for down and closing costs
please let me know...i am not a traditional agent -i will help,show,hold your hand, -it's tough out there and agents typically are lazy and only money driven sorry to say-i actually care about the well being of my clients!!! have every client you can call!!!!
A. mabry ###-###-####
ps my mom lives in grapevine over 30 years as a broker 2 for 1!!!!!
____@____.com...........won another bid for 39k for 1600 sq ft!!!!!

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J.M.

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Fina,

My husband work for Southwest Lending doing commercial and residential loans. His business partner is also a realtor and would be more than welcome to help find you home and lead you in the right direction. He has been in the business for 14 years. He helped my mom get into a home after foreclosure and bankruptcy. He would be willing to sit down with you and discuss your options. His consultations are completely free and his schedule is completely flexible. He does work evening and weekends if that would help. Let him know his wife referred you. I do credit repair on the side if you are interested in doing that as well.

Michael Browne
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Jessica Browne
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Hope we hear from you soon and good luck. I once use to be a single mom too so I completely understand.

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