D.P.
Just wanted to offer a few thoughts on home buying:
*When deciding how much to spend on a home be very conservative with the amount. When I was single I bought a home for 50% of what I was approved for and often thought I'd be eating dogfood if I had financed the max! Maybe that will influence the amt you need for down payment?
*Never get an adjustable rate mortgage.
*I think a conventional mortgage would be better in the long run. It's not that far of a jump from 3.5% to a 5% down payment. Just wait a little longer to save the difference.
*Never believe what someone else tells you what you can afford per month--only YOU know what you can truly afford. When they start saying things like "just don't order a pizza every week....." you know you're over extended!
Good luck!