Hi S.,
Even though I never heard of the "Money Merge Account" approach, I would run the other way - fast! All these "quick and easy ways to reduce your debt" approaches are usually just scams. If the approach is so complicated to understand, then that should be the biggest indication to stay away.
Another reader mentioned Dave Ramsey's "The Total Money Makeover". If you haven't heard of Dave, I would HIGHLY suggest reading this book. Dave Ramsey also offers a 13 week course called Financial Peace University (FPU)that will teach you not only how to get rid of debt, but also how to build wealth the common sense way. These courses are usually offered at your local churches, as well as at other community locations. I teach the Dave Ramsey FPU class at my church and have helped many families get rid of lots of their debt, become better money managers, and save for college and retirement. The "baby steps" that are taught don't end when the class ends; it is up to the individual/couple to continue the baby steps afterwards.
Debt is only the symptom and a lack of money is not the cause. Personal finance is 80% behavior and 20% head knowledge. Change your behavior and way of thinking about money, and you will see major positive rewards. The great thing about Dave Ramsey's teachings is that his principles are nothing new...they have been around for decades. This is why I was attracted to his teachings since what he teaches is exactly what my dad and mom taught me. Now, I am blessed to be able to teach others.
One question to ask is...is this family member completely out of debt? More often than not, people who are not out of debt and don't have a handle on their money matters are the ones that give out lots of advice.
Hope this helps!
K.
p.s. One more thing S. (and for everyone else), if you want to find all FPU classes in your area, go to http://www.daveramsey.com/ and type in your zip code.
As I said before, this is the BEST investment you could ever make since your ROI (return on investment) is astronomical if you stick with it. Let us know what you and your hubby end up doing. I am always here as a FREE resource if you need a sounding board. Blessings to you always! :>)