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You can google wipe recipies. My fav is water, olive oil, lavender and tea tree oil. I use a wipe container from when I used huggies. I have heard that using a wipe warmer is nice. But I haven't tried it. I LOVE MY PLANET WISE WET BAG. get the one that is a wet and dry bag. One side you put the used ones and the other side you can put the clean ones! It's sooooooooo nice. I seriously don't know what I did with out it. Oh yeah, I used disposables when we went out and about. Now that I have it, it only use disposables when my son goes to daycare ( I hate that cloth diapers aren't allowed to be used in state licensed daycares and I am on DC assistance :( )
For a pail i just use a trash can with a lid. I would suggest one that seals. Mine doesn't just because I couldn't afford the ones that can. But I make a spray with water and just a few drops of the lavender and tea tree oil and spray it when ever I put a diaper in the pail. Also baking soda helps A LOT!