T.F.
My dad loves spicy salsa, etc and it is just not available where he lives in AL. We went to a Mexican restaurant last year and ordered queso, favorite of his, and when they brought it to the table, daughter and would not touch it because that was no queso!!!! Since I am in TX with great salsas, queso, etc... I bought a variety of real salsas that were extra spicy that I knew my dad would love.
As for my husband, this is our first Father's Day without him since his death in October. Daughter and I plan to have a small balloon release at his grave.
I think you have a great idea for a BBQ basket. I purchase all of our beef, pork and chicken from a butcher who has high quality and he always has specialty rubs, etc that are not in the stores. Many are local. He also sells special Hickory, etc chips for smokers or just adding to the grill for flavor.