H., I can so relate to what you are saying. My 5-year-old daughter is an extremely picky eater. She does not like milk, will not eat cheese, not real particular about yogurt. Meat wise she will eat chicken and steak and that is it. She will eat corn but that is the only vegatable she will eat. She does however like fruit so that helps.
Anyway, my daughter just had her well child check up and I asked my pediatrician. My pediatrician said that she is very healthy and growing well. She is within her percentages and that is a good sign. He also said that if I was worried about her nutrition to put her on a daily vitamin and that Flinstones were great. She is now on a daily flinstone vitamin every day and when I forget she reminds me because her Doctor said she needed to take it...those are her words.
Anyway, I just keep offering things and letting her know that she could be missing out on something really good if she doesn't at least try it. She seems to be getting a little more willing to try and I don't shove and hopefully one day we will come to a mutual understanding.
Hope this helps a little
M.