C.M.
My son had tubes put in and did not come out from under for hours. He is highly allergic to drugs (as we found out) SoI would go back to the doctor that did the surgery and let HIM figure out WHY he is behaving in this way. Keep a record of the number of times he does it each day or hour and during what activity ---
9am holding head crawling around
10am holding head eating Cheerios
This way when you go you can show him EXACTLY what is going on and not just a "hysterical mother" in his office.
Realize that he will at first reject that his work has anything to do with the problem. But be persistant and get to the bottom of the issue. "But he never held his head before this surgery---"What else do you think could have caused this problem or behavior?" are questions you need to ask to move him from where his pride is to where you need to be to help your child. Help your surgeon to figure out what is happening to your child. Think about it Why would you hold your head all day? -pain dizzy, full filling, aching. buzzing, something left in the ear canel. It could be a number of things but you must act as your child's advocate and solve this problem for him.
Doctors are JUST people and as people they can make mistakes or overlook something. My son did not hold his head at all after his surgery. He did however say "Mommy, I hear the birdies, do you hear the birdies?" I cried. I had not realized how deaf he was going. It was only when I realized that his speech was down to two words that I demanded he be seroiusly taken a look at. His doctor said "Well he is so advanced at his manual skills, Momma Don't Worry! I showed him a chart(in his baby book) with his vocabulary skills at 5 months and again at 9,10, and 11 months and he very vividly saw the regression in his speech abalities.
I shutter to think what would have happened to his hearing I had not pushed for a solution. PUSH and find out what is going on,
Keep Mothering
Ms Cindy