Trisha,
Sounds very familiar. My son (whose now 5) had chronic ear infections beginning at 9 mos. He too went through the same drugs you have....and it was frustrating as nothing got rid of it. We were referred to the ENT and at 12 mos tubes were the only option. They did also take his adnoids (sp??) but left the tonsils. IT WAS Scarey...but it was a HUGE relief....for awhile. At 2 he had to have another set put in...so 2nd surgery I knew what to expect. He's now 5 and we haven't had an ear infection since.....although his tonsils are incredibl HUGE still...and have me concerned. The ENT tells me its normal.
If you have any questions....feel free to send a note.
GOOD LUCK!
P.
p.s. EVERYONE has their personal opinion about tubes at such a young age. I was scared to death....but in the end. I made my own decision with getting all the details about it. The surgery itself takes only minutes. I think they are OUT maybe 5-10 minutes tops. Do your research, and do what you and your spouse decide and don't let anybody critize your decision. I know for my situation....and living the days/nights with a very sick child....who could never get over a virus before catching another...and had me out of work alot, or my parents coming often to help me out since I couldn't miss work due to the laws governing daycare....it was the best decision for me.
p.s.s. Another thing that I did was (in my research) found that a chiroprator did adjustments on infants. It just so happens that when he was born...he hyperextended his neck. So the neurolgic alignment in the spine does affect the ability to fight off virus...and after a few adjustments...my son is finally healthy and not the chronic sick child he was from 9 mos to 24 mos. Again, alot of controvesary around chirpractor's in general -- but that's what worked for me. I now only have him adjusted once a year...if that. But it certainly has done wonders for us!