My twin boys will be 4 in April. They are fraternal as well, couldn't be more different looking! LOL! My husband is half Thai and half Puerto Rican, one twin looks like him while the other twin looks caucasian like me! LOL! They are very much a handful but I hate it when people say that expression "You've got your hands full", we do have three other children besides the twins and get that comment a lot. As the twins get bigger it does get a little easier, they are not so dependent on you, but the situations change because they are a little more dangerous to themselves. One twin just got his cast off last week for jumping off his chest of drawers, he told the Dr he is Spiderman!! HAHA!! I would be glad to answer any questions or share stories with you! Congrats on having two bundles of joy!