Okay, with my first ever child, I got all gung ho and did cute personalizing on her things.
Then, I wised up: now, for both kids, I just use a Sharpie permanent marker on their things.
Only their wheelie backpacks are monogrammed (with their 3 initials), via LL Bean. Which is good because their backpacks last forever.
LL Bean, has GREAT GREAT backpacks and is warrantied for life. And they will send you a new one if ever yours breaks or whatever.
It is WORTH the price. They have all kinds.
No point in ordering "labels". That costs money.
Just use a Sharpie permanent marker or a Sharpie "Laundry" marker.
I do that with ALL my kids things, and never have a problem
I get both the regular and fine point, Sharpies.
I label my kids' things, with their initials.
And make a "smiley" face or some other symbol, next to their name/initials, in case some other kid has the same initials.
Or, I just put their first names and last name initial.
But NOT on their backpacks.... where the "public" can see it.
OR, I also will, attach/tie on, a bright pom-pom, to their bags/lunch bag etc. So that, they can also VISUALLY tell, which is theirs. And so that, other kids can see instantly, that this is not their bag and grab it by mistake. (kids in school can often grab someone else's bag by mistake).
But also along with using Sharpie pen, to mark my kids things.
Sure, Sharpie may eventually wear off. So then, you just re-write it in Sharpie on the object or clothing. Easy.