I loved my old neighborhood: 3 community parties (4th of July, Back to School, and Christmas---complete with Mr and Mrs Clause, hired "elves", real reindeer, toy soldiers on stilts, snowmen and rudolph (costumed characters), carolers (school choir kids, church groups), cookie exchange, hot chocolate and cider while the kids get pictures with Santa, a large inflatable screen to play wii for the kids, lazer tag, hay rides, etc); we had 7 houses within walking distance where we had parties pretty often: 11 kids birthdays, some adult birthdays, some just for fun or seasonal foods parties, etc. When we moved in, everyone came and introduced themselves, when I had only lived there for a month and had knee surgery, a family 3 doors down came and brought my son some new little toys (a puzzle, some hot wheels, colors and a coloring book) for quiet play. We all did trick or treating together, played neighborhood games where treats were left at your doorstep, we could walk to the duck pond, playground, and spray park. The pool area was landscaped and had 6 pools in it (lap pool, waterfall lagoon thing, waterslides, resort pool, playground in a pool, baby pool) and tennis, basketball, lots of playgrounds in the community and very close to outdoor soccer and baseball fields, a skate park, an indoor soccer arena, a bounce house place, and award winning schools. Loved it! There were playgroups, LOTS of clubs, several neighborhood sports teams listed.
We're in a nice neighborhood now, walking distance to the schools, 1 mile from the playground, tennis, and pool. Golf courses all around. 15 minutes from the beaches. But the community itself is a little boring right now. People walk and play golf a lot, and they are friendly enough, but keep to themselves more. I miss the comradery of the old neighborhood but I think with time this will be good.