A.K.
This is a new one for me. I didn't know that a judge could turn down a divorce request at all. But, I've never been divorced either, lol.
I'm sorry you (or a friend, you didn't specify) is going through such a difficult situation when it should be a very happy and blessed time.
If it's a simple legality thing, is a separation possible and then finalize the divorce after the birth of the baby? This might take care of the problem.
Also, I think a lot of lawyers offer free consultations. So, calling to simply ask would not cost anything.
You live in Warren Twnshp., right? So do I. If you ever want to meet somewhere for lunch or I could bring my kids over for a play date (I don't think five kids and three adults would fit in my apartment, lol) sometime, I'm game. :)
God bless,
A.