R.J.
My cousins stay there every year (yes, it really is wonderful), but every time we've gone down the pool has been under maintenance/closed... so we've been glad to be 1 stop down the monorail at the more basic Disneyland hotel (about half the cost) with a working pool!
For ME: I need to be on the monorail line (legs get tired! And not just the little one's!), and we need a working pool. I used to live 20 minutes away, and we'd do the all day thing. Flying in for a week, we alternate between park and pool/room several times a day. Park for a couple hours, pool/food/room for a couple hours. Park for a couple hours, pool/food/room for a couple hours. Ha. Living so close, I never knew Disney could be RELAXING as well as fun/exciting.
That may change as my son gets older, but for now, it's the perfect combo.