Oh my - I feel your pain. We are in the same situation. I have one in coach pitch and one plays travel ball, so we are at the ballpark... every...night. I'm at my wit's end with that in itself, but it's a whole other story. So, this is what I do - because my son doesn't want to eat a meal before practice or games (too much on the stomach) the kids snack on healthy food and we don't eat dinner until we get home. It's a late dinner, I know, but there's no way around it.
1. Crockpot. I do as many meals in it as I can. Stew, roast, chicken soup, chili, etc. These are meals I typically make in the fall during football season, too, but will take a break from them from Feb. on, so that they are kind of "new" again. I also do chicken in the crockpot for enchiladas or chicken tacos. The meat is all done, so all you have to do is put the enchilada or taco together. You can do lasagna in the crockpot, meatloaf, stroganoff, pork chops, almost anything.
2. I will also buy chicken at Costco, bring it home, separate it and freeze it in either a veggie bouillon or Italian dressing, terryaki, etc. ( I have a Food Saver) That way, when I defrost it, which takes about 5-10 minutes, it's already seasoned and ready to go. You can grill it and just throw some rice, pasta, etc with it and it's a meal. I will also cut up (quarter) potatoes, pu them in a bowl with a shake of olive oil. I will season with salt, pepper and chili powder. Put them in a foil package and put on the grill with the chicken. Once they are cooked - usually taking only a couple more minutes than the chicken - you can add some shredded cheese to the top of them and lay foil back over it to melt it. You now have cheesy potatoes! You can omit the cheese if you want, but the olive oil and steaming on the grill makes these potatoes really delicious!
3. I will also take sandwiches to the park with me. I'll make turkey, ham, etc sandwiches and put them in a cooler. That way I'm not always tempted to just go to the concession stand and eat hotdogs or burgers every night for 3 months.
4. Two websites that are my saviors are www.allrecipes.com and www.supercook.com Allrecipes has all sorts of categories for different recipes - chicken, beef, main dish, side dish, quick and easy, crockpot....reviews rate the recipes so you know which ones are likely to turn out like they should :). Supercook has you type in or click on ingredients you have in your house and it will spit out recipes you can make with what you already have at home. ...lifesaver when I haven't planned ahead.
5. SInce you are doing your meal before the games, I'd suggest filling the sink with soapy water and putting your pans, plates, etc in there to get them off the table. When you get home, they have already soaked and you can just pop them in the dishwasher without really having to rinse, etc. If your kids are hungry when they get home, you can reheat some of the dinner from earlier or maybe a bowl of cereal, fruit, cheese and crackers....something to fill them up before bed. I know I really don't like coming home to dirty dishes, either, but for the sake of getting everyone ready and out the door without screaming and losing your temper - oh wait, that's me*LOL!* - sometimes you just gotta deal with a little mess when you get home.
I hope some of the info from all these posts will help. It's tough to feed your family healthy when you are always on the go. Most the families from my son's team, just drive through a fast food place. That would get real old, real fast. So, good luck and have a happy season!!
***Forgot to mention a couple other things (will this woman ever stop typing?!?! LOL!!)
If you have frozen chicken, you can put that in the crockpot frozen. All crockpots are different, so you may want to experiment before cooking from frozen, but if you forget to defrost something and wanted to cook it the next day, just put it in frozen and turn it to high or a setting that will have the heat up a little hotter than normal.
Also, I forgot to mention one of my kids favorite meals - breakfast dinner! A quick scrambled egg, sausage and/or pancakes is something my family really likes. It's easy and quick. You can even make the pancakes/waffles beforehand and freeze them. Or, make up the batter and put it in a container to keep it in the fridge, so it's ready when you are. If I make a big breakfast on the weekend, I may wait until Wednesday to use the breakfast dinner card, but they seem to really enjoy it whenever we have it.
Ok, I think I'm done, now. Ha Ha!