I sent you a private email with a personal story and some ideas but wanted to share that all materials must show that his disabilities and areas of suspected needs (not the DX specifically) drive the Goals and Objectives. You have to get appropriate and accurate assessements done. You need to make sure you understand those results and can have someone neutral verify the tests are complete and what the results truly mean.
You need the right age aprropriate tests and sometimes there is a gap..as in the Kaufman language test. It only goes up to 74 months or something and my kiddo was right over that and there was reportedly no other test. So he would test high on that.
Also, All medical information needs to explain how your son's diabilities are manifesting problems for him in an EDUCATIONAL setting, impacting his ability to learn, access his schooling and also if it is impacting others.
Once you get testing, (from speech, ed psych, SIPT, Processing, motor planning, technology, Adaptive PE assessments, not Screenings, then sit down and write goals
Goals and objectives are tricky. I can get some good tools for you.
He will need accomdations and modifications ( I am not talking about watering down curriculum as you stated he is bright, but teaching him the way he learns..visually no doubt, sitting arrangement, sensory diets, brakes, positive support, headphones for noise, an exit plan at assemblies, prep for transitions, changes, as much notification if there is a sub (which is hard) but anything that can throw him until he is regulating better( hello, OT OT OT) and he will need this.
We know some great OT in our neck of the woods but not sure you want to drive that far.
I am reading the Sensational Child right now. Can only read out of sync books so many times..
Best K., hope you got my message
To my knowledge, the IDEA act is also about being able to access community and leisure as well as education. It is a slippery slope area. Email me if you want.