Hi S.!
Here is my take on dairy and soy...
Cow's milk products and soy are 2 of the most mucus-forming products available. They are extremely hard to digest and cow's milk products make the body very acidic, creating an environment ideal for cancer and disease. Soy mimics estrogen in the body and thus can throw off the body's hormones. So much so that it is not recommended for young boys. I could go on and on, but these are my main reasons for avoiding dairy and soy.
Only organic dairy products should be consumed, as conventional is loaded with nasty chemicals. And yes, dairy can make you gain weight, and overall it is just not good for your body. The pasturization process denatures the components of the milk, making it terrible for our consumption. Cow's that are fed pasturized cow's milk, very quickly die. The milk that is closest to human milk is Goat's milk, so that would be the best animal milk to consume. And if you are truely committed to wanting dairy, raw is really the best way to go.
If you are looking for milk alternatives, almond milk is nutritous and delicious. You can buy it at the store, or make it yourself (it is really easy). Soak 1 cup RAW almonds to 6 cups water overnight, blend in the blender (a high speed blender like a vita-mix is best), drain "milk" into a container, separating the milk from the pulp. You can then use the pulp to mix into cookies or really anything that you like to have a little almond flavor to. You can sweeten the milk with a little agave nectar, add vanilla or just drink it plain. Soaking the almonds before blending activates the enzymes making it extremely beneficial!
I have recently switched to a raw foods diet and occasionally eat some raw milk cheese, when I do, I am congested and feel like I am coming down with a cold the next day, purely because of the mucus that is formed from consuming a small amount of cheese.
Several years ago, when I met my husband, he convinced me to only drink organic milk (as I was consuming conventional milk). Within that month of switching, I lost 30 pounds, all because of the artifial hormones that I was no longer getting. Nothing else had changed in my lifestyle! At the time I was going through a gallon + of milk a week by myself, so this was a significant change for me. Because I had been drinking conventional milk all my life (and LOTS of it!), making the switch also sparked a hormone inbalance that took several years to correct.
There is a lot of information about dairy and soy, and a lot of misleading information. The dairy and soy industries would have you believe that their products are the best thing to happen to humans since we evolved, but I can assure you, they are giving out incorrect information for the sake of profit. I think you'll find that if you take out dairy and soy products, that you and your family will overall be healthier, coming down with fewer illnesses, you will have more energy and just might find it easier to lose a few pounds!
If you'd like to know some of the resources where I have gleaned this information from, please feel free to let me know! I have felt an incredible change in my own health, energy and weight-loss by omitting dairy and soy from my diet, so I can speak not only from the science standpoint from my research, but also from personal experience.
Please let me know if you have any questions, it's a lot of information to cram in a small space!
H. Gaitten
Owner, Natural Choices
www.naturalchoicesforliving.com