1) see if the creditor will accept a lower payment in leiu of a full payment - explain your situation, if the 1st rep isn't interested, ask to talk to a supervisor until you get a yes. Also, some credit cards have programs where if you lost your job than you can get help, but I think that's an optional service that they charge for???
2) Also, you can check out debt management programs like Greenpath...yes, they charge a $50/month fee for managing your bills, but you can get the interest rates lowered and the bills will be paid on time.
3) There's also this thing called debt settlement. I can't think of the radio show that I was listening to that explained it, but these representatives can help you with lowering the principle that you pay to the lender.
My dh and I are going through the process with Greenpath and we are about half way through the program - knowing that we will be debt free at the end of it is the motivation that keeps us going. The best thing that happened to us was cutting up the credit cards!
There isn't any easy answers when it comes to too much debt and not enough money coming it, but you just have to find something that would work in your situation.
Oh, also check out the programs that the energy and electric companies have for low-income people. And I want to say that it's the Salvation Army that will provide payment for electric or gas in an emergency...you'd have to check it out, but they do more than just ring the bells at Christmas time.
Also, call the Y because they help people get connected to resources in the community/state that would help.
Also, if you are connected with a church or just your local church might be able to help, in terms of food/other needs.
You aren't the only one going through this-and you won't be the last. Good luck to you and yours.